How many decisions did you make today?
Minuscule or major they’re impactful. You have choices to make every day and every choice will lead to an outcome. After you have made a decision there is no going back. What’s done is done you have to deal with your decision and the outcome.
Should’ve, Could’ve, and Would’ve do not EXIST. You have choices, then you make a decision, which produces an outcome. IF there was a possibility that you could make a new decision those words still do not exist because you would know what choice will give you the outcome you desire, so now you will make the “right” choice.
To say you should’ve could’ve, or would’ve will keep you in the past. You can not change the past. You can assess why you made the decision you made, get a better understanding of the outcome, and then you can make adjustments in the present to get a different outcome in the future.
Do not be discouraged. Your past does not define you. You may not be able to change the past but you have the power to make better choices in the present, which will grant better decisions and outcomes in the future. You have the ability to create the reality of your dreams.
The choice is yours.